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How to win respect
Posted by Alice Wong (547 days ago)
Could anybody here advice me that how to win respect from the boss and colleagues?
Probably this is a wide topic, but I would like to know some strategies.
(I am based in Hong Kong)
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Posted by HK01 (547 days ago)
You need to earn it by hard work, quality work, showing respect and intergity, just to name a few.
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by Alice Wong (547 days ago)
Hi HK01, the solution you provide is great answer. Coudl I unsterstand as to be a high-quality person and You have no mistake for any person to attack you.
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by HK01 (547 days ago)
Sorry Alice, I do not understand your question. Are you saying you are a high quality person and your boss/collegues do not respect you?
If so, maybe try ask someone you are close with at work what the problem is. perhaps you inknowingly offended someone, or perhaps they are jealous of you. not sure, but maybe a friend at work and clue you in on why you are not respectd
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by car_lover (547 days ago)
Just be urself unless u wanna polish some shoes. You might gain respect from some but definitely not all.
(I am based in Hong Kong)
Posted by Fabio (536 days ago)
Alice, HK01 & car lover, both said it nicely. The emphasis should be on "earning" respect through efforts on your part, rather than pursuing like it's some sort of prize/reward.
You will find if you are consistent with your work, help colleagues (includes bosses!).
That should also mean, you don't need to worry about to look over your shoulder for "any person to attack you".
You will have clear conscience and your integrity will be intact, and as you build your personal credibility, "respect" will follow.
With some - not all ! That's Life.
All the best.....
(I am based in Hong Kong)
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